I have been working for two weeks before this. But these 2 weeks seem to be like 2 months for me. The reason… mainly is because the attitude and behavior of the boss. Then the second reason is because I dun like to work as media relation.
For the boss attitude, I’m lazy to talk about her anymore. For media relation, even I can get to know the famous TV program producers in short time, but according to my personality, I think I really can’t work as PR. In these 2 weeks, I got to see some media people are really “pretending”, like to show off their power as media and love “face” and love you, if you can provide them free product (not only provide to the host oh, have to provide for the whole production team), then they only “consider” to give you some space in their program. What a dark world. That’s why I can’t adapt to the environment.
So now, I am free again. But I won’t stay at home longer and doing nothing anymore coz I… Dunno, I just want to find anything to do. Typist, café, teacher, anything also can. Hahaha… I think I have enough rest lor. The most important is I hope I can start to earn money so my parent can enjoy their life and no worry on expenses anymore. They already very old and should not to work anymore. So, I must find work and get money then I can support their daily life expenses.
I realized some of my friends or the young adult nowadays did not give any pocket money monthly to their parent even they got work. I understand it is because the salary they got are spend on the daily expenses, car, petrol, dinner with friends and may even not enough for them to save money. But I always remember someone said that, in the old time, one man (a father) work so hard, get so little salary, but he also able to support the whole family: his wife and few daughter or son. Then why at the end, the few adults (the children) even can’t support for parent together. This kind of case always happens in our society nowadays. The world is developing, more people are getting rich, and their environment always is getting better but not worse. But why they still unable to support their parent who never enquire more. Maybe because “fast” is the tempo of our life now. We want to develop ourselves fast, work fast, earn money fast, so spend most of the time on working. However, we sometimes also need to “pause” it, and look around, then you only able to find back the original aim, dreams, and yourself. I heard an interesting story before. Here it is:
One day, there is a famous financial planner went to a small island for vacation. Then he saw the island is full of rich natural sources and fish. Then he saw the fisherman only fishing by a small boat, then sell them at every morning. For the other time, the fisherman will stay at home and spend most of the time with his wife and children. The financial planner very curious and ask him,
“Why your working time is so short?”
Then the fisherman answer him,
“Because I want to treat my family nicely and spend most of the time with my family. My family is the most important in my life”
Then the financial planner tell him very confidently,
“This island got a lot of fish. If you want, I can help you get a bank then you can get loan to buy big ship and get a lot of fish. From my experience, you definitely can get rich by selling the fish. Once you rich, you even can use the money you earn to buy more ships and recruit other people to work for you. Then you can have your own shipping team and export this good quality fish to oversea. Once you get to promote your fish to oversea, I can help you to establish board listed company. This can be done only in 10-20 years time. Then you can get a lot of money and enjoy your rest of the life beside the sea.”
And the fisherman laugh and looking at the financial planner and says,
“I now already enjoy my life here with my family everyday. Why I need to go one round and spend most of the time for working. I know at the end I will get rich, but I even may get lost and have to be apart with my family and my love 1 for more than 10-20 to work for it.”
Then the financial planner is speechless.
This story is not asking you to be lazy and no need to work. It is to remind people that, you must always remember the original aim that you have made. Dun get lost in yourself. For example, your aim is to give your love 1 to have a happy life. So you work so hard to supply what she wants. But at the end, your love 1 is unhappy because you spend most of the time in working and you claim it is all because of her. You must understand that, to make 1 happy not = to give her money. Your aim is to give her happiness not to give her money!!! People always get lost at the end. (But I also not saying money is unimportant wor, it is just part of the task to fulfill the aim. hahahaha)
I dunno how many people out there get to understand what I am talking. But at least I understand lor.
That’s all.
Merry Christmas
"All i want for christmas is U…"
**Sun**
