Blogss - 27 Dec 07
Thursday, December 27th, 2007I am…
When there is 1 person told you, “you are really ….” It doesn’t mean what the person said is right. But if there is another person told you the same thing then they really mean it.
In last week, there were 2 persons who don’t know each other have use differ term but with same meaning to describe me.
Scenario 1: On last few weeks, I was chit-chatting with my classmates & teacher when we were waiting for our turn to perform. Then we talked about our background, our family, our employment… After I have talked about myself, then suddenly “someone” said to me, “No wonder you’re so weird.” I was like “HAR???!! Weird? You also not really better than me!!!”
Scenario 2: One day when I was reading a magazine, the editor recommended a book and the book is about how to improve our inner beauty. As the magazine shows this book is available in Popular so I just immediately call out to my friend and asked him to buy for me with staff price (hehehe… cheaper mah). After I told him this then he said, “Har? You already so different like an object from the space (he means “alien” in a better term), no need to buy it.” I was like, Alien??!!! Ok, alien, maybe there is beautiful alien (just to comfort myself).
I am not sure what they really mean. But I know they said it without bad intention. Just spontaneous reaction. But I really hope it doesn’t mean something bad… kekekeke…
The value of a girl
That day when I was chit-chatting with friends and suddenly this topic was brought up. Well, we define the value of a girl in term of 2 different life stages – single & married.
Before this I thought the value of a girl will be increased once we get married. Then my friend told me, “No… the value is decrease after married.” I was like… Har? Why decrease? Not because of we get married then our value is increased as we now got the love from husband meh?? Well, they perceived the value is decreased as you belong to 1 man only after married and the other men won’t crazy for you anymore. Wow… quite true also. Some more your husband may sometimes feel irritating also as they can’t see other girls and feel bored to see you only… Hahaha… well, sometimes we have to lose something when we got something.
Well, I understand that no matter how we debate I also can’t give a clear theory that “Being single has more value” or “being married has more value.” I just know no matter being single or married, being a girl always has to ready for adding value on self. So being a girl is really tiring. No matter in term of behavior, attitude, appearance, inner beauty or knowledge/intelligence, always has to be perfect and improving from time to time. Some writers said doing all of these is just to please the guy. OMG. No way. V should do it for ourselves. It is because the guy doesn’t know how to appreciate us so at least we have to appreciate ourselves.
So girls, please be good to yourself. Ok? I mean improving yourself but not acting fake. Both of them may not have much difference but it differ naturally with your intention.
**Sun**
